@ela speaking for myself, I certainly see the benefits of experts using generative AI in their field of expertise where a user is willing and able to spot mistakes in the generated output. A force multiplier, yes.
However, the current generative AI mania is fully driven by using it outside of the users' field of expertise. "A PhD in your pocket" is the literal ad copy. The organisations pushing the use of generative AI are using it to replace human expertise and craft, without understanding if the plausible-looking generative AI results are correct. This way lies madness and one day we're going to be very sorry looking back at the many failures, cruelty and general downdumbing caused by AI use in our current era.
Anyway, since you're generalising about how AI opponents sound to you, let me clap back that these "True, I share concerns about the AI industry, but my coding assistant is great for me and I'm only using it ethically unlike everybody else around me" comments like yours sound like so many white-lie responses by meat eaters to the ostensibly annoying vegan: "Sure, you have a point about the global-scale negative effects of the meat industry, but I eat less meat than average and only buy from the organic butcher."